Definition of Mindfulness
I just listened to Jon Kabat Zin define a working definition for mindfulness and I like it.
What do you think?
Mindfulness is the awareness that arises from paying attention on purpose to one’s inner workings [ the sensations in one’s body and head ] in the present moment without judgement.
This is a useful and important skill for refining one’s sexual skills and enjoyment. Being able and willing to notice what’s going on with your own body, mind and soul FIRST is a lovely precursor to intimacy with another.Finding a way to develop intimacy with oneself first means we have more of ourself to offer a beloved partner.
Wanting becomes more visceral, more tangible and more erotic.
Being able to embody, express and want a particular sexual experience is a unique way to be in your best self, be in the moment which is really all we ever have for sure and push our own personal and sexual development.
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