miraclesWhen we’re in the middle of a crisis, we can’t see clearly what’s happening to us. We are in too deep to recognize habitual patterns, understand what what’s happening with the people around us or identify new ways of behaving and being.

Jayne brings an experienced, educated and caring outsider’s perspective to your life. She begins in a place of loving respect and moves into openness and honesty, helping clients see their lives and their issues with new clarity.

relationshipsRelationships: Married, Dating & Living Together

Over time, long-term relationships can get stuck. Qualities that were once endearing and sweet become annoying and childish…

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Trauma Resolution

Trauma is an experience that exceeds a person’s capacity to soothe themselves. It comes in many flavours, sizes and intensities. Deep memories of trauma are stored in a special part of the brain, the amygdala…

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sexual therapySexuality

Having an erotic, passionate life puts “life in your life,” swagger in your step, makes you bright-eyed and bushy-tailed. If you can have that with the person you are married or committed to, you are fortunate indeed…

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When we do not face our insecurities, we remain mired in the unconscious, unmet needs of our childhood. We often project those needs onto the people closest to us. Spouses are perfectly set up for this, as are friends, co-workers and family…

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parenting teensParenting

Finding and developing your own parental style, as a mother, a father and as a team, is an important feature of family life. It’s about creating create the soft side of hierarchy…

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Anxiety & Depression SupportAnxiety & Depression

Anxiety and depression often go together and play havoc with a person’s self esteem, relationships and life path. They thrive in social isolation, deprivation, routine, ennui and boredom

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What Clients Say:

  • "There's something about the way that you work. I trust you and I am getting better. People are noticing and I am not bothered by ...

    A 55 year old man struggling with no sexual desire in new marriage says…
  • "This is a compliment to you. I hear your voice telling me that I don’t need to suffer anymore."

    A client from Sidney says…
  • "It feels good to get those things off my chest and to understand the primitive brain’s part in my emotions."

    A client from Greater Victoria says…
  • "You seem to ask the right questions that get us where we need to go."    

    A client on Vancouver Island, BC