Panda Bear Couples

November 09, 2011  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

People, like panda bears can de -eroticize their relationship and rarely have sex. Their cuddliness, good humor, generous spirit, and lovableness is so easy to live in,  they don’t develop a mature kind of sexual expression. The longer you neglect sexual contact, the harder it is to get it going again. After 6 months of little to no fucking, the probability of getting it on again without outside help is low.

Many self help books, videos,  courses and of course therapy can help. Underlying issues have to be addressed – sexual pain,sexual performance problems, inhibiting beliefs, and lack of information about good healthy sex and what it is intended for.

I am very interested in these couples and these issues. Helping people reconnect and build their sexual repertoires is my main mission in life. My workshops are all intended to build on the theme of healthy sexual expression that sustain and challenge couples  over the life cycle.

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