Summer Sex – While the kids are away. the parents will play !!!

August 25, 2014  |   Blog,Weekly Sex Tip   |     |   0 Comment

Under the tabaleAs summer winds down and families prepare for another school year, I hope you have had

the experience of reconnecting with your lover / partner. A good reason to send your

children to their grandparents or to camp is so the adults can reclaim their home and

make it a more erotic space. Sex in different parts of the house,

wandering around naked and lustful kisses in the kitchen are all part of reclaiming

the erotic bond in your household. The trick now that they are back is to keep it going. Can

you have a

hidden erotic connection going with your partner while you’re making lunches for the kids

or playing video games ? Can you flirt while feeding the baby ?

That capacity to keep 2 roles going at once is good for family lifeand your nervous system.

 

Children and teens benefit when their parents are getting it on with each other.

The spiceynes in the air means somebody is firing on all cylinders and is alive and well.

This attunement is good for us. And it is catchy in a good way. We’re meant to resonate

with each other’s well being.

If we attend to the children too much, oxytocin builds [ the cuddle hormone ] and

testosterone declines. [ the desire for sex hormone ]. One parent. usually the woman is

more attuned to the parenting cues and less so to the erotic cues. Finding a way to protect

and develop the erotic charge keeps marriages and families in the pleasure zone. Adults

are happier, their zest for each other is the cradle that children and teens rock in.

PLEASE EMAIL ME WITH YOUR EFFORTS TO KEEP YOUR LOVE LIFE ALIVE WHILE

PARENTING.WE’LL CREATE A FACEBOOK PAGE JUST FOR THIS WORTHY

VENTURE

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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