6 Stages of Marriage – Tips for Surviving and Thriving

February 06, 2018  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

I am writing this 6 part blog to expand upon my previous blog 6 Stages of Mariage – Pearls Before Swine Cartoon, using some ideas from Emily Nagoski’s book, Come as you Are.

Click here for Emily’s book at Amazon.

I will be updating each stage over the next few weeks, so please stay tuned and check in for updates.


Tips for stage one:

During stage one of becoming a couple individuals are infused with a special hormone that make them feel especially funny, attractive, witty, handsome,beautiful and SEXY. The sexual contact is HOT, VARIED and FREQUENT because of this hormone and their intense interest in the individual being courted. Each person’s sexual inhibition system is OFF and their sexual excitation system is ON. The dual control system of sexual desire is working at it’s maximum for choosing and being chosen. Once the choice is made and the couple have decided they are “IT” for each other, the honeymoon goes on for awhile.

Then stage two…….


Coming soon.

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