Sadness after Sex

February 01, 2014  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

What does it mean to feel disappointment or sadness after sex--even after a healthy orgasm ? Earlier this week I was reflecting on that experience after an enjoyable encounter with my husband of 32 years. My chest felt heavy even though my  pelvis, legs and head were warm and full. I ...

Movies to Grow With

January 02, 2014  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

Somebody asked me through Facebook whether I had any ways to help with an overactive libido. It made me think about 2 movies I have seen recently about sex/ porn addiction. Thanks for Sharing is a comedy/ drama about 4 ...

Erectile Dysfunction- a common condition

December 13, 2013  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

Many men are affected physically, emotionally and psychologically by erectile dysfunction. The inability to get an erection and/ or maintain an erection is  a baffling affliction.The causes are varied and mysterious. Sometimes it happens at the beginning of a relationship or partway through when the relationship is growing in importance. Or ...

Mating Rituals

November 10, 2013  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

Mating Video

Before Midnight, Before Sunset, Before Sunrise

September 06, 2013  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

These movies starring Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy are  a trilogy   directed by Richard Linklater.They feature a couple in the beginning of their courtship, several years later when they make their commitment, and finally a decade after that when they are coping with the mundane experiences of their domestic life. The ...

Movie Review – Blue Jasmine- Woody Allen’s New movie

August 17, 2013  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

    I saw this movie last night. It opened in Victoria at the Odeon. Cate Banchette plays a troubled, deluded woman married to an unscrupulous business man who cheats on her and in his businesses. When he decides he loves another and wants to leave her, ...

Questions for Marriage today

April 21, 2013  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

I shared my experience of attending a wedding at The Bay for the Modern Bride trade show on February 2, 2013.The bride and groom elected to marry in this way rather than at a synagogue, church or even city hall. If ever there was an event to indicate the changes ...

The Sessions – a movie about sexual courage

April 21, 2013  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

Helen Hunt was nominated for an Academy award for her role as a sexual surrogate in this film. She was paid for her part in helping a profoundly disabled man have a sexual experience.In 6 sessions she was to guide him into the sexual acts of his choice. This role ...

The Body in the World, The World in the Body

April 20, 2013  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

This presentation is useful in understanding some of my ways of working with sexual and other issues. It is a resource based method that uses the nervous system's natural healing capacities. ENJOY !!!!

Times Colonist Article

August 29, 2012  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

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