Long Term Committed Relationships- the Challenges and the Rewards

June 18, 2019  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

We are all living longer and healthier in the 21st century than ever before. We expect modern medicine to replace our hips, our knees, fix that heart valve, cure cancer etc... When all else fails, and even when it doesn't, we turn to naturopathy, acupuncture, massage, Feldenkrais and other alternative ...

Orgasmic Meditation – Slow SeX – Nicole Daedone

April 09, 2019  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

     

The Making of a SEX therapist

March 19, 2019  |   Blog   |     |   1 Comment

As I was walking to work today, I was remembering an early experience of sensual rejection between my parents. I was 13 and my mother was standing at the stove stirring. She was tired, but dutifully making food for the family. My dad burst in the door just ...

Vacation sex

February 05, 2019  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

Vacations are a great time to add rejuvenating ideas and experiences to your sex life. In the same way you make plans for what you want to see and do, think about sexual stuff you might want. Most of us have sexual interests that we have not confided to our ...

Creating a Sacred Space

January 29, 2019  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

The early days of passion melt into everyday routine and the uniqueness of our partner becomes ordinary. Keeping sex alive after the early days requires intention, focus and receptivity to your own erotic charge. Each individual needs to be in touch with their carnal, embodied self. If you don't like ...

Smart Lovers, Quickies: What the heck do you want from sex?

July 03, 2018  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

Every week I talk with clients - men and women who are not very interested in having sex with their current partner; 12 years of marriage, 2 kids, a mortgage, a dream job and everyone's busted. Stress and busyness keeps our brains and bodies revved up in a state of ...

A Funny Thing Happened in Dance Class

July 01, 2018  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

Rebecca is a young vibrant woman  who arrived in my Flamenco class in February of this year. She danced across the room from me so I didn't notice her for a while. Then one Saturday afternoon after we worked the letra ( the verse ) part of dance vigorously and ...

Simmering – Keeping your Erotic Charge

June 19, 2018  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

Like a pot on the back burner, your erotic excitement can be kept simmering - below the boiling point for sex but still fun and inviting. I remember couples from my adolescence who would search out each other at every break. He'd walk with his hand in her back pocket ...

From lust to love – The evolution of a passionate kinship

April 10, 2018  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

Most everybody worries about their sexuality. " Am I buxom enough, am I fat?" "My stomach sticks out." " I don't think about sex hardly ever." " I think about it ALL the time. " "I long to ........" fill in the blank. Am I normal? Am I attractive? Lovable? Sexy??? The good news ...

” Is Something Wrong with ME ? ” “YOU ? “

March 27, 2018  |   Blog   |     |   0 Comment

The power struggle stage in a long term relationship is tough enough, add sexual discord and it all feels worse. One of the biggest problems in couple relationship is differing sexual desires. He often has spontaneous sexual desire, she has responsive sexual desire. Both are normal, but different. Spontaneous desire is ...

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